I feel like life is a constant test of patience . . . probably because I'm not very good at it :) Unless you include patiently waiting for the last day before an assignment is due to get it done, but I'm guessing that most people would put that under the category of 'procrastination.' I suppose I could blame it on the society we live in where the mind set is: 'I need more right now for less,' and we are used to getting quick or instant results, but I have a feeling that patience is an age-old problem that people have always had to face, technology or not. I figure that Heavenly Father must be a pretty patient man if it takes as many tests of patience as it does to attain anything minutely close to His level, and every time I'm tested, I learn something.
This time around, Brent and I have been waiting for a very special gift to come . . . sometimes referred to as a 'bundle of joy,' if you catch my drift :) We have been waiting for a year and a few months and are still waiting (so no, this is not and announcement), we have had the opportunity to work with wonderful, understanding doctors and nurses and we have learned a lot so far from this test of patience. Sometimes, it is a really difficult thing to deal with . . . not knowing when the waiting will be over, but one day it will be over, just like every other test of patience, and we will be rewarded with one of God's most beautiful creations. Those of you who have experienced even a small period of infertility know the pain and anguish that comes with wanting a child you can't yet have . . . and those of you who haven't experienced it, I hope you never do!
Today, we received some exciting news that helps tide us over while we wait . . . Brent was accepted into BYU's Master's of Accountancy program! Yay! We are so excited and I am so proud of him for working so hard in school to get in. He will start the program in the fall, while finishing up his bachelor's and will graduate in April 2013 with both degrees. How grateful we are for the sweet blessings we receive, even in the midst of hard times . . . it's a great testimony of how much Heavenly Father loves us! I think the burden of waiting will always be lighter when choose to remember the good things we are given . . . let us know what things you are grateful for!
Chelsy
4 comments:
Congratulations, Brent!! That is great news!
You know I know how infertility feels and that I am right there with you. It does require a lot of patience. The funny thing is that I think I have become more patient as time has gone by. I just think...it must not be their time to come to earth. Like you, I know that it will happen some day. I'm just starting to feel old so I need it to happen soon :D
I had a post similar to this one back in January. And you already know that I can relate to how you're feeling. I hope your doctor appointments go well and they can give you good news soon! I'm just waiting to hear a little Brent/Chelsy is on the way, you will be wonderful parents :) Miss you guys!
Dad and I have talked a lot about trials lately, and how to get through them. We don't all have the same trials. Our wise Heavenly Father has custom made our trials for each of us. What I've learned from my current trial is that I had been taking for granted so many things. It has made me appreciate so many little things. No, I didn't want this trial, yet I am so grateful for it. It has brought me closer to my husband, to my mom and to my brothers and sisters, and most important of all, my Savior and Heavenly Father. I am also so grateful that about 8 months ago I chose to make some changes in my life that would strengthen me spiritually. Heavenly Father knew what was ahead for me and has prepared me for this trial. Yes, there are times when I am still weak and lose hope, but I know where to turn to find the strength to go on. I find peace in the scriptures, the temple, and going to church. Every day my testimony grows about the importance of not only holding to the iron rod, but clinging to it. We can't go a day without taking time to strengthen our spirits. We may not have a trial today, but they are coming and we need to prepare ourselves. Let's continue to pray for each other, and if you ever need to talk, I'm here.
Love,
Mom
Chelsy,
I had no idea you guys had a blog so when you posted it on facebook the other day I was so excited to read and catch up on what you and Brent are doing.
I didn't know that you guys had been trying to have a baby. I can't even imagine how hard that is for you. It took Ty and I almost a year to have Emorie and that doesn't even compare. In hindsight, though, Emorie was born at a perfect time for Ty and I and we were able to look back and see Heavenly Fathers hand in the timing of our family.
You will be in our prayers. Any little one would be so blessed to have you as a mother. It will happen for you!! Hang in there.
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